Whatever happened to predictability? Because Candace Cameron Bure was certainly not expecting what she encountered after accepting one party invite from a pal. 

Not shy about injecting at least a bit of spice into her nearly 30-year marriage with former NHL right winger Valeri Bure, "I went to a party once with Val," she detailed during the March 10 episode of The Candace Cameron Bure Podcast. "And it ended up being this underground party that was an S&M sex thing that was so dark and demonic." 

Doing a quick scan of the get-together, she felt an overwhelming urge to tell everyone to cut...it...out. 

"We walked in, and my eyeballs were popping out of my head because I saw stuff I’ve never seen before in my life," the Full House alum explained. "And I’m looking at Val, going like, 'How are we here? What is happening?'" 

The answer, for her at least, was that they were exiting stage left ASAP. 

"We made a hard U-turn and walked right out of there," she shared. "And it just was like so slimy and weird. And I was like, 'We’re going to pause before we ever say yes to going out with that friend again.'"

That's not to say the actress—celebrating her 50th birthday April 6—has an issue with giving her husband a heart, a hand or something else to hold onto. 

When fans freaked about her posting an Instagram photo of Val copping a feel in September 2020, her response, essentially, was, how rude!

"It was so pretty out and I said, 'Honey, let's take a few pictures together,'" Candace recalled while discussing the incident on an episode of Confessions Of A Crappy Christian Podcast that November. "Then the very last picture he grabbed my boob, like put his hand over and it was super funny and cute. So I was like, 'Oh my gosh, this is so funny, can I please post this?' And he was like, 'That one? Yeah okay.'"

As for the hate that followed, she continued, "I was like, 'You know what guys? I've been married for 24 years. I'm a Christian, my husband's a Christian, and I'm really proud that we've managed to stay married for 24 years."

Because while their house quickly filled up as they welcomed daughter Natasha two years after their 1996 vows, followed by her little brothers Lev and Maksim, it took them a beat to find their stride in the bedroom. 

"Sometimes there's a skew about sex within the Christian community that I get really sad about," she noted on the podcast, recalling how as a child there was so much shame around intimacy. "I lived in such a fear of 'Oh my gosh, I'm not supposed to be a sexual person, because I have to save myself. God is going to think negatively of me if I'm having sex.'"

So even after she married Val, 51, she revealed, "For a few years, I would have sex with my husband thinking like, 'Oh my gosh, is God looking at me and like is this bad? Is he mad?'"

And that's not the only revelation Candace has made about her union. 

Forthcoming about their struggles during the height of the pandemic-era stay-at-home orders, she's admitted that at one point, her marriage to the Bure Family Wines founder was "going south quickly." 

But when they were lost out there and all alone, their second-born Lev (and his bible!) was waiting to carry them home, delivering a passionate sermon that left them recommitted to their union.

Her takeaway from the experience, "I think year to year you have to reevaluate what’s working, what’s not," she explained on a November episode of the Stay True podcast. "How are the schedules changing? And you have to continually adapt to what’s new to figure out your rhythms, and the rhythms are going to keep changing." 

Particularly as your house gets fuller, she added, "Your marriage gets put to the test." 

"You have kids that come in and they demand all of you and then they get a little older and then they pit you against your husband," she continued. "And you don't even realize it."

Interested in more of her marriage takeaways? You got it, dude! 

Oh, my lanta! Candace Cameron Bure was not prepared for what she walked into after accepting a party invite from a pal. "I thought, like, 'Oh, this person's a friend, and I’m going to be cool and do this,'" she explained on a March 2026 episode of The Candace Cameron Bure Podcast. So, she and husband Valeri Bure attended "and it ended up being this underground party that was an S&M sex thing that was so dark and demonic." 

And everywhere she looked, everywhere she went, "My eyeballs were popping out of my head because I saw stuff I've never seen before in my life" the Full House alum continued. "And I’m looking at Val, going like, 'How are we here? What is happening?'"

Ultimately, she didn't stick around to find out. "We made a hard U-turn and walked right out of there," she added. "And it just was like so slimy and weird. And I was like, 'We’re going to pause before we ever say yes to going out with that friend again.'"

When Bachelor alum Madi Prewitt revealed on the actress' podcast in March 2026 that she views the act as a form of "worship," even praying to God beforehand, Candace didn't exactly respond with an amen. As she noted, "A visual of God watching me having sex weirds me out."

Ideally, she would like her bedroom to be a little less full. "It totally just depends on your upbringing and what your past experiences have been or the things that you were taught as a kid," the star acknowledged. "All of those. Again, I’m almost 50 and some of those adolescent thoughts never quite leave your mind."

Because while she's comfortable with getting physical, "I’m giggling at it now," she added, "'cause I don’t want to think about God watching me have sex."

According to the actress, Steve Carell was on to something with his 2005 breakout flick. "I've done a lot of parenting and had a lot of conversations in this area over the years," Candace explained during her chat with Prewitt. "But I have plenty of friends—they all laugh at the title of the movie The 40-Year-Old Virgin—but I have lots of friends that are."

As the whole word was social distancing during the COVID-19 pandemic, Cameron was feeling a growing chasm between her and Val, the former NHL right winger she wed in 1996. 

"It was going south quickly," the mom to Natasha, Lev and Maksim shared during a July 2025 episode of her eponymous podcast. "And I was like, 'I don't know. I don't know if we're gonna make it through.'" 

But an unexpected bible study proved to be the answer to their prayers. "Lev came up to us and said, 'We'd like to talk to you guys,'" Candace recounted of her second born. "Lev preached like a 45-minute sermon on marriage to us. Like had his bible open on the couch and just talked to us about it." 

She credits his reminder that they've got it, dude, with helping them salvage their union. "He was just such a calm voice that had so much wisdom behind it," the Fuller House star explained. "And he looked us straight in the eye and individually asked me and asked Val, 'Have you done everything you can?' We walked away from that, and Val and I were like, 'We raised pretty good kids.'" 

A "pivotal moment" in their marriage, she continued, "It really changed for us after that talk. It’s a whole different scenario when your kids sit you down to talk and say, 'Are you being as mature as you can be?'"

Candace had little mercy for the fans who filled her DMs after she posted a photo of Val copping a feel in September 2020. 

"For all the Christians that are questioning my post with my husband's hand on my boob—my husband of 24 years—thinking it was inappropriate, it makes me laugh because it's my husband," she detailed in a follow-up, posted to her Instagram Story. "We have so much fun together."

And so, yes, decades into their marriage, "He can touch me anytime he wants, and I hope he does," she added. "This is what a healthy, good marriage and relationship is all about."

As for her message to the haters? Cut. It. Out. "I'm sorry if it offended you...I'm actually not sorry," she summed up. "I'm glad that we have fun together after so many years and he can touch me all day long."

Let's talk about sex, baby. That was Candace's message to her fellow Christians months after she got in big trouble, mister, for letting her husband get a bit handsy. "Sometimes there's a skew about sex within the Christian community that I get really sad about," she shared during a November 2020 episode of Confessions Of A Crappy Christian Podcast. "Sex needs to be celebrated within marriage. It's not to be shameful." 

Though that wasn't the messaging she received growing up in her full house. "I lived in such a fear of 'Oh my gosh, I'm not supposed to be a sexual person, because I have to save myself,'" she recounted. "'God is going to think negatively of me if I'm having sex.'"

Which meant that even after she married Val at the age of 20, she still felt a bit bad about getting busy. "For a few years, I would have sex with my husband thinking like, 'Oh my gosh, is God looking at me and like is this bad? Is he mad?'" she admitted of the early years of their marriage. "Now I embrace it so much that my kids are like, 'Mom, please stop talking about sex. Please stop.' But I've always been super open."Â