As a working mom who shares sons Calvin, 9, Oliver, 6, and Rusty, 4, with ex Brian Fichera, the Today co-host reflected on the doubt she faced about returning to her job shortly after giving birth.

“I went right back to work after my oldest was 3 months old,” Dreyer said on the June 11 episode of her podcast The Parent Chat, noting she had built a “village” of helpers including a nanny, her mom and her mother-in-law. “I loved my nanny. But I remember when Calvin was a baby, maybe like 4 or 5 months, and he would only want her.”

The 44-year-old added, “I was home a lot. I work a schedule where I can be home by 11 o’clock in the morning, I was there to cook dinner, but he preferred her.”

But while Dreyer’s concerns were valid, her guest Connie Simpson—known as “Nanny Connie” because of her celebrity client list including Emily Blunt, Matt Damon and Justin Timberlake—gave her an alternate perspective. 

“Stop judging that. Be happy that that happens,” Simpson said. “It would be really devastating if it were the opposite, if every time you walked through that door, they just wanted to latch on to you. And you go, ‘Wait a minute, this woman's been here with my kid all day, and they're petrified of her.’”

Plus, the baby nurse added, “A village is a beautiful thing. You are not built to do this all alone. Don’t judge yourself because your village is showing beauty somewhere else.” 

And though Dreyer confessed she was previously “so hesitant” to admit she had a nanny because she “felt guilty” that she needed help from other people, she ultimately agreed with Simpson’s perspective on the beauty of having others to help her be a mom.

“That [nanny] relationship is so important because it helps you build your village and gives you the time to give to yourself, too,” she said. “I literally couldn’t do it without my village.”

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A total touchdown moment. NBC Nightly News anchor Tom Llamas and his son Tomas celebrated the Miami Hurricanes' January 2026 win in an adorable selfie. 

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Clint Eastwood's fifth child, son Scott Eastwood, has followed in his movie star footsteps by starring in films like Suicide Squad, Snowden, The Fate of the Furious and Pacific Rim.

It's his life, but Jake Bongiovi bears a striking resemblance to his dad, Bon Jovi lead singer Jon Bon Jovi (with wife, Dorothea Bongiovi, and their youngest son Romeo Bongiovi at the Jefferson Awards Foundation's 2017 DC National Ceremony). Fortunately, he gives love a good name, married to Millie Bobby Brown since 2024. 

Pieces of Katie: As a tween, actress' Katie Holmes' daughter Suri Cruise (at a 2016 performance of Finding Neverland in NYC) was her undeniable twin. 

The jury is not out. Jack Marsden's resemblance to dad James Marsden was uncanny at the 2017 SAG Awards.

Marlowe—Alfie star Sienna Miller’s daughter with ex Tom Sturridge—joined her mom for a rare public outing in London in April 2025.

Double take! Real Housewives of Atlanta alum Kim Zolciak's daughter Brielle Bierman could pass for her younger sis. 

Soccer star Cristiano Ronaldo had the cutest plus-one in son Christiano Jr. at the London premiere of Ronaldo in 2015.

Sailor Brinkley-Cook has followed mom Christie Brinkley right down the runway. 

Also taking a walk in her mom's proverbial stilettos: Kate Moss' daughter Lila Moss. 

Whoever said Reese Witherspoon's daughter Ava Phillippe doesn't look like her twin is as seriously disturbed as whoever said orange was the new pink. 

Like mother, like daughter. Lisa Bonet and Zoë Kravitz attended the Vanity Fair Oscars party in 2015.

With their matching jumpsuits, sleek hair and glasses, Demi Moore and eldest daughter Rumer Willis looked like carbon copies. "That moment when you realize you actually are becoming your mother #twinning #imnotmad," Willis joked on Instagram in 2015.

Pictured here in 2010, pop icon Madonna's daughter Lourdes Leon is a fashionista just like her mama!

You'll get a kick out of how much soccer star David Beckham and his oldest son Brooklyn Beckham look alike.

Kelly Ripa celebrated daughter Lola Consuelos' 14th birthday with this adorable 2015 pic. 

Once upon a time in Hollywood...Kill Bill actress Uma Thurman twinned with her daughter Maya Hawke on the red carpet.

Years before Blue Ivy Carter made her way up the Met Gala steps alongside mom Beyoncé, she suited up alongside her lookalike dad Jay Z at the 2017 Grammys.

Days of Our Lives star Alison Sweeney and her daughter Megan got in the holiday spirit at 2015's Disney On Ice Presents Frozen at the Staples Center. 

In matching bobs, Lily-Rose Depp and mom Vanessa Paradis appeared cut from the same cloth at the 2015 Chanel fall-winter Haute Couture show in Paris.

Caught red-handed: Oscar winner Julianne Moore twinning with then-tween Liv at a 2013 New York Fashion Week event.

The genetics are strong between Robin Wright and daughter Dylan Penn (in 2022), but the pull toward all-black garb is even stronger. 

Everywhere you look, everywhere you go, there's another photo proving how closely Olivia Jade resembles her mom, Fuller House star Lori Loughlin.

Lincoln star Daniel Day-Lewis' son Gabriel-Kane, whose mother is French actress Isabelle Adjani, made his big runway debut at 2015 Paris Fashion Week

The truth is, in fact, out there. Gillian Anderson stunned with daughter Piper on a 2015 red carpet. 

"It used to be that I didn’t see it at all," Kaia Gerber acknowledged of her resemblance to mom Cindy Crawford , "but now I will look at a picture and have to take a moment before realizing which one of us it is." 

Though Colin Hanks' 2008 photo alongside dad Tom Hanks had us doing a double-take, it's actually the actor's youngest son Truman Hanks who played a young version of the Oscar winner in 2022's A Man Called Otto. 

Mammia Mia! You can certainly see the family resemblance between Meryl Streep and daughters Mamie, Grace and Louisa.