Martine Singer is giving a peek into her family’s life today.
Nine months after her sister Michelle Singer Reiner and brother-in-law Rob Reiner were murdered in their Los Angeles home, she shared how their kids Jake Reiner, 35, and Romy Reiner, 28, are coping.
“Everybody in the family is healing in his or her own way,” Martine told Extra in an interview published Sept. 28. “I’ll never be my sister and I can never be what it is that’s missing in their lives, but I consider them my kids. There’s no daylight between us.”
Still, she emphasized that their lives are now “changed forever.”
“I suppose you healed from a wound, but the scar is there,” she continued. “It’s a really hard thing to describe because it doesn’t—it never goes away.”
Martine also reflected on how special the relationship was between Michele and Rob, who tied the knot in 1989.
“They were absolutely incredible together,” she added. “They met and [it] didn’t take long before they were kind of together forever.”
Plus, the late couple—also parents to Rob’s daughter Tracy Reiner with ex-wife Penny Marshall—spent their lives helping others, including at Martine’s organization Children Institute, which serves underserved communities.
“They were the most caring, generous, brilliant people,” Martine shared. “They did a lot to try to heal the world and it’s everybody’s responsibility to do their part.”
Since Rob and Michele’s December deaths, their son Nick Reiner, 32, has been indicted by a grand jury for their murders, with the grand jury alleging that he intentionally killed his parents by means of lying in wait with “a deadly or dangerous weapon”—in this case a knife.
Nick has pleaded not guilty on two counts of murder with the special circumstance allegations of multiple murders and murder by means of lying in wait, according to Los Angeles County District Attorney Nathan J. Hochman.
For all the details about the investigation into Rob and Michele’s tragic deaths, keep reading.
Rob Reiner and Michele Singer Reiner's Son Nick Reiner Details Struggle With Drugs
Years before Rob Reiner and Michele Singer Reiner’s tragic deaths, their son Nick Reiner shared that he struggled with addiction, even collaborating with his father on the 2015 film Being Charlie about substance abuse.
Nick explained that he had been to rehab 18 times before turning 30.
“I was homeless in Maine. I was homeless in New Jersey. I was homeless in Texas,” he told People in 2016. “I spent nights on the street. I spent weeks on the street. It was not fun.”
Two years later, Nick recalled an instance when he “wrecked” his home while high on drugs.
“I went 10 rounds in my guest house,” he shared on the Dopey podcast in 2018. “I got totally spun out on uppers—I think it was coke and something else—and I was up for days on end. I started punching out some things in my guest house.”
Nick Reiner Placed in Mental Health Conservatorship
Nick was placed in a mental health conservatorship from 2020 to 2021, two people with knowledge of the legal arrangement later told The New York Times. A clerk with the Los Angeles Superior Court confirmed to the outlet that it ended in 2021.
His appointed conservator Steven Baer—a licensed fiduciary—told the NYT that mental illness “is an epidemic that is widely misunderstood and this is a horrible tragedy," but declined to comment further.
Rob Reiner and Nick Reiner Fight at Conan O’Brien’s Christmas Party on Night Before Couple Is Found Dead
The When Harry Met Sally director and his 32-year-old son got into a heated argument at Conan O’Brien’s Christmas party on Dec. 13, 2025, multiple sources at the event told People. Family friends also confirmed to the L.A. Times that Rob and Nick fought at the holiday celebration, saying that guests noticed Nick acting strangely.
Two sources with knowledge of the situation told NBC News that Nick was being disruptive at the party and interrupting conversations.
Jane Fonda Says Michele & Rob Reiner Were "Happy" Night Before Deaths
Jane Fonda saw Rob and Michele the night before their tragic deaths.
"I saw them night before last looking healthy and happy," the actress wrote on Instagram Dec. 15. "I am reeling with grief. Stunned."
Rob Reiner and Wife Michele Singer Reiner Are Found Dead in Their Brentwood, Calif., Home
The day after the Christmas party, the Los Angeles Police Department responded to a call of a death investigation at a home in Brentwood, Calif., at about 3:40 p.m. on Dec. 14.
“Once inside the residence, officers discovered two victims,” the LAPD said in a press release, “who were subsequently identified as Robert and Michele Reiner.”
The Robbery Homicide Division, Homicide Special Section (RHD/HSS) started an investigation into the circumstances of their deaths.
Deputy Police Chief Alan Hamilton told reporters that many family members would be interviewed, per NBC News. In addition to Nick, the couple are parents to daughter Romy Reiner and son Jake Reiner, and Rob also adopted late ex-wife Penny Marshall's daughter Tracy Reiner.
The Reiners’ Manner of Death Revealed as Homicide
It was determined that Rob and Michele did not die of natural causes, with a source close to the Reiner family telling NBC News that the couple appeared to have died from stab wounds.
“As a result of the initial investigation,” the LAPD said in a press release, “it was determined that the Reiners were the victims of homicide.”
Nick Reiner Seen in Gas Station Footage Before Arrest
While police investigated the case, Nick was filmed buying a Gatorade at an ARCO gas station in downtown Los Angeles near USC around 9 p.m. Dec. 14. He was wearing a green jacket, jeans and a ballcap while carrying a red backpack, as seen in footage obtained by MS Now.
Minutes later, the screenwriter was taken into custody near USC.
The LAPD said their investigation determined that Rob and Michele's son was "responsible for their deaths.”
“Nick Reiner was located and arrested at approximately 9:15 p.m.,” police said in a press release, adding as of Dec. 15, “He was booked for murder and remains in custody with no bail.”
During an appearance on Jimmy Kimmel Live Dec. 15, Michelle Obama revealed that she and husband Barack Obama were supposed to see Rob and Michele on the day they were found dead.
Nick Reiner Hires Alan Jackson—Lawyer for Harvey Weinstein and Kevin Spacey—as His Attorney
Two days after Nick was arrested in connection to the murder of his parents, criminal defense attorney Alan Jackson—who previously represented Harvey Weinstein, Kevin Spacey and Karen Read—confirmed to E! News Dec. 16 that he had been hired as Nick's attorney in the case.
As officials gathered at a Los Angeles courthouse Dec. 16 to announce formal charges against Nick, his attorney told reporters that the screenwriter "has not been medically cleared" to appear in front of a judge.
“Every inmate has to be medically cleared before they can be transported to court," he explained to reporters, per MS Now. “Hopefully, he’ll be cleared tomorrow and we can get him here.”
Los Angeles County District Attorney Nathan Hochman announced on Dec. 16 that his office plans to formally charge Nick with "two counts of first-degree murder with a special circumstance of multiple murders."
The D.A. also confirmed Nick will also face a "special allegation that he personally used a dangerous and deadly weapon, that being a knife" on his parents.
He added, "These charges carry a maximum sentence of life in prison without the possibility of parole or the death penalty."
Though Rob and Michele's bodies were discovered around 3 p.m. on Dec. 14, they were likely killed around 12 hours prior, according to authorities.
The district attorney said in a Dec. 16 press release that the murders took place "in approximately the early morning hours of December 14."
Nick is accused of "fatally stabbing" his parents, per the D.A. press release on Dec. 16. He allegedly "personally used a dangerous and deadly weapon, a knife" in the murders.
On Dec. 17, Nick appeared in court for the first time, arriving to the Los Angeles Supreme Court in a blue anti-suicide smock and shackles. He did not enter a plea to his charges during the appearance, instead agreeing to a date of Jan. 7 for the arraignment.
The medical examiner determined Dec. 17 Rob and Michele each died by "multiple sharp force injuries," meaning several cuts or stabs from a sharp object.
At Nick's scheduled arraignment Jan. 7, 2026, his attorney Alan Jackson announced he has withdrawn from the case and Nick will get a public defender, according to an MS Now reporter in the courtroom.
In response, the Reiner family told E! News in a statement that they "have the utmost trust in the legal process and will not comment further on matters related to the legal proceedings."
Nick Reiner Pleads Not Guilty to Murdering Parents Rob Reiner and Michele Reiner
During Nick's Los Angeles arraignment Feb. 23, he entered a plea of not guilty to two counts of first-degree murder with a special circumstance of multiple murders.
He was represented by public defender Kimberly Greene, who replaced previous attorney Alan Jackson. With a preliminary hearing set for April 29, the L.A. County Public Defender's media team released a statement saying they wouldn't be commenting on the arraignment "or on Mr. Reiner’s overall case for the foreseeable future."